Ok soooooooooo i think ill yap abt my endermen stuff from my au.
Enderians isnt a specific species but the name for endermen cross-breeds. all enderians/endermen are eithe nb, demi-girl, or demi-boy. they all also use en/ends which is a pronoun set i came up with. in my mind, enderians/endermen don't have the concept of gender that we do. they can also asexually produce.
Theres a difference between the different genders, but its not very strict. most male aligned endermen are a bit taller and have darker skin. but you could present more masc, but identify as nb or female. they have a very loose concept of gender and the um...downstairs area can actually change if an enderian/endermen is born fem aligned, but decides to transition to more masc.
:3 srry for the giant text blocks lol